Im 29 and been in this lifestyle for about 5 years.  I was introduced by a woman in her 40's whom I met on the internet.  We chatted a while and decided to meet, she told me hubby may watch or leave and being a rookie I just wanted sex.  She taught me alot as we met for about a year.  Then I began buying memberships to swinger sites and attended parties and lifestyle clubs.  Now my main attraction is to white women, as I grew up in all white schools and alway dated white girls.  Some in this lifestyle like the taboo or the fact that they were told its wrong.  Me its just normal to me as thats always been my attraction.  I often meet younger women in my real life and ive been the first black guy on many occasions.  What turns me on is the fact that they are opening thier mind to something and not afraid to go agaisnt the grain.  When I meet in the lifestyle what turns me on is the fact that they want me for my qualities and thier lust is genuine.  Ive been with many of couple and never had a bad experience.  As you go through swinging you learn what you like and dont like.  I dont like gangbangs anymore, I like more of an intimate time wheather its its a couple or a few couples.  Im more into moods and flirting and building the moment.  I have also become picky in the sense that I love to cum inside the female.  I test frequently and I found out without a condom its more intimate and the sex is amazing as she can feel my full girth.  Im thankful for the couples I met and if there is any thoughts you want to add please do.

L