I've been thinking about what really makes me tick, the answer came to me thinking about my last serious girlfriend. She had a knack for making me want to push the envelope everytime we had sex. The most memorable was at a swing club, we'd both been drinking, and there was no one there that interested us, so we headed together to a private room. It was pretty vanilla sex really until I was ready to cum, as usual, she asked me to cum in her mouth. I was about to honor that request, when an idea, a fantasy she shared with me over a year ago, popped into my head. I told her teasingly NO....looked her in the eyes and came so hard inside her, I almost fell on top of her. She started to lean over to lick me clean and again I teasingly told her NO again. Pushed her back on the bed, knelt down and began to taste her. I slowly and gently began licking our cum out of her, teasing her ass and clit as I went. Then as I leaned over her, feeding it to her in a warm, wet, messy kiss. She kissed me harder and deeper than she had in weeks, began playing with herself, it wasn't long before I was doing the same.  Then kneeling next to her watching her rub her clit as only she knows how, I honored the second request of cumming in her mouth.  We did our best to look like we weren't having sex, went back out mingled and while we're no longer together, we still talk about that night we were almost disappointed with the club scene